Saturday, March 21, 2009

9 Reason Why People Cheat!!!

Maybe I'm not very attractive, so my options are limited. Maybe I'm too jaded to go for the cheating opportunities. Maybe I still have some mental wounds lingering from when my dad temporarily moved out because he had met another woman [Whoa! My dad loves my mom]. Maybe I'm too afraid that I've reached my sin quotient and one more big sin will keep me out of heaven.

I am just now patching up a friendship with someone I was seeing while they had a boyfriend [that may make me a cheater]. Alya ta bwat mcm tu eh [igt alya awak tu da ad bf]. At different points she told me that she had broken up with her boyfriend, that they were back together, and that he was boring and I was fun. It was total confusion.

1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat [da selalu sgt dgr ayat BOSAN ni dikeluarkan oleh sume org ta kira la guys or ladies after dorg da break up]. It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in [Alya rs na single lg ker?].

2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.
3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.
4. Because They Let You
If any boy ever cheated on me, I'd break up with him immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back [Btol2 cz da pnh terjadi pd someone ni. Sbb tu gf diew ckit pn ta tnjkkn yg diew respect bf diew].

5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well [satu tindakan yg BODOH terutama kepada isteri/suami yg curang].

6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back [Pulak dah. Tinggalkan terus sudeyh!!!].

7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you [Hahaha. Dgr tu alya. So jgn tertarik kat org lain lg. Cukup la ng kecik tu jer].

8. The Thrill

Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, and creating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance [Menyusahkan hidup lg ad la. Kang kalau da kantoi br tawu].

9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might

Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." Tapi kitorg still ingat out date la which is 060906. If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.


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